Autobiography & CV

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Autobiography & CV

By Vladimir Huber

When I was completing my Master’s program in Psychology at the University of Santa Monica, California, after having completed a course on John Bradshaw’s genogram, which is like a detailed family tree (book, Family Secrets) we were asked to write a creative autobiography, with text, photos, and anything else we wanted to include in it.

One of the tools we could use was Erik Erikson’s 8 stages of development. I added a previous one to the first one, starting at conception, instead of birth, since during my training as a Breathwork facilitator with Drs. Gay & Kathlyn Hendricks, we had been doing water breathing to work with prenatal issues. I wrote nine poems, one for each of the 8 + 1 stages. After each stage, we were asked to express our self-forgiveness, which is a way of acknowledging the judgments we make on others and ourselves. It relates to what’s called projections, in psychology.

The title, History of Loving, was given to us by the faculty, as an expression of whatever might have happened in our lives. It was a memory of loving and painful moments, which we were willing to heal. Somehow, I was greatly surprised when I found much joy in the memories, besides the painful times.

So, here it is, the history of my life, from conception to bye-bye.
May you enrich yourself with the story.

Imagen perpectiva Book story of a journey

Esta es la autobiografía original de 1996, si quieres ver la versión completa, actualizada en el año 2021, totalmente bilingüe -inglés y español- con 260 páginas y 265 imágenes a todo color, con propuestas en educación, salud, medicina, psicología y el medioambiente, así como sobre el rol de la mujer a través de la Historia y en la actualidad, puedes visitar: Vladimir Huber, relato de un andar.

This is the original autobiography, if you want to see the complete version, updated in 2021, fully bilingual -English and Spanish- with 260 pages and 265 full-color images, with proposals on education, health, medicine, psychology and the environment, as well as on the role of women throughout History and today, you may visit: Vladimir Huber, story of a journey.

Introduction

When I was completing my Master’s program in Psychology at the University of Santa Monica, California after having completed a course on John Bradshaw’s genogram, which is like a detailed family tree (book, Family Secrets) we were asked to write a creative autobiography, with text, photos, and anything else we wanted to include in it.

Definition of Stages

Vlad’s creation
conception – birth
fish vs. human
resolution: it’s OK to be a tadpole

Conception – birth

I just heard a big bang
it sounds like my parents decided
to have some fun
yet, I don’t think that
they calculated the consequences
well, you know kids!

Birth – 18 months

The king is here
Hear people, the king is here
hear! hear! he has finally arrived
nine months seemed forever to wait
for him to come to be with us

18 months – 3 years

18 months – 3 years autonomy vs. shame and doubt resolution: self-control and willpower The king is shy So much attention has turned the king shy he looks for his privacy at an early age he feels OK with people, by doesn’t say much maybe, it is part of his royal demeanor it’s fine, he’s…

3 – 6 years

3 – 6 years initiative vs. guilt resolution: mature sense of purpose The golden child is red The child is red, the king is red do not despair, it is not what you think! it’s only his hair, the color of fire he wears a hat to protect himself from the sun is the sun…

6 – 12 years

6 – 12 years industry vs. inferiority resolution: sense of self as competent The kingdom is falling apart The child is growing, the child is learning he is not comfortable at school even though he does well, they skip him a grade dark clouds are coming closer in his horizon he doesn’t know what destiny…

12 – 20 years

12 – 20 years identity vs. identity confusion resolution: fidelity = being true to yourself The adolescence that never was The child became a teenager he was shy, introverted, and depressed pain was all over his soul he didn’t have a father, at least, not with him he wouldn’t show the pain yet, he couldn’t…

20 – 35 years

20 – 35 years Intimacy vs. isolation resolution: loving In search of his heart He had left his heart in the north, in 1972, and it hurt he was madly in love, yes, quite much this way, for the first time in his life he met women here and there, but he couldn’t forget her…

35 – 65 years

35 – 65 years generativity vs. self-absorption resolution: sense of caring for and about others Fame and fortune are with the angels He and his wife lived together for nine years in Los Angeles the land of film and television, and movie stars he worked for the industry, but not too well he worked in…

65+ years

65+ years integrity vs. despair resolution: wisdom Grandpa, me? His children grew, married, and had kids as well life was full, life was good his school was also having kids there were schools all over the globe with stores, clinics, and film studios, radio and TV stations as a memory of his years in film…

Love Letters

As part of the assignment of writing the autobiography, we were asked by the professors to get letters from our closest relatives, where they would express what our birth meant to them. Here are the letters from my mother, Luchi, and my two sisters, Sandra and Marcia.

Profesional y académica

Profesional y académica Vladimir Huber Dr. en Psicología (c) Dr. en Educación (c) Magíster en Psicología California Diplomado en Neurociencias y Psicogenealogía Diplomado en Biología Cultural Diplomado en Biología del Conocer Santiago, Chile Licenciatura en Comunicaciones Washington, DC Experiencia Profesional Conduce talleres y seminarios que promueven la Evolución y el Autocuidado, así como el cambio…